GENERALIZATION CONCEPT & WOMEN

GENERALIZATION CONCEPT & WOMEN

There is a famous proverb in Tamil with meaning of a drop of cooked rice is enough to check the whole cooked rice. This is widely used for the concept of “Generalization”. A drop of cooked rice is in eatable condition means the whole pot of cooked rice is o.k. What it means? In general the fact is proved by our experiences.

But, how can it be allowed to use this generalization concept in the case of an example for the feminism. And how much it acceptable the generalization concept for whole women, by looking at the attitudes and hobbits of some women. Not only that, usually the concept is used for soulless properties, but the notable fact is it’s being used for feminism years and years. In order to use a concept or notification, we should follow the conditions have to be applied and the ways it was used in previous years. In that sense we failed in approaching the concept on feminism.

Accidently I got a chance to read an article about a description of a woman in an old English monthly magazine. At that time I hated the fact of generalization very much. Here is the description. Note that this is not the first copy of that writer, some may have got changed.

Symbol : F

Average weight: 60 kg

Places where could be found: Wherever men, there ever

Physical properties: * Being heated up for no reasons. * If they want they can melt as ice-berg suddenly. * Showing best attitudes when there is a good hospitality. * Also getting bitter when the usage is hard to carry.

Chemical properties: * Getting attracted by gold, silver, costly dresses, beautiful household gods * Very good reactions, whenever happened to be lonely. * Getting exploded in front of girls who are pretty than them.

Usage: * As a jewel. * As the trade mark for the position of the men. * As a medicine whenever men affecting by high tension.

Caution: * Hazards by exploding in inexperienced hands. * Worldwide agent for reducing the income.

I can hear a sound of saying all the facts are right, by looking at these all. That tone sounds as men’s one. Isn’t it? Exactly, it’s a men’s one. Still we can see a face of a man behind this tone and laugh. Women are being considered as like this for years and years by men in the world. This is how they make pictures of women by the generalization concept from our early past. Even every religion in the world gives equal rights to women as men, the men can’t accept it however.

We can make any facts to irritate women; there is no sense in making that kind of effort, we can talk whatever about women, we can however exceed their limitations, they can be irritated by anyway; there is nothing to worry, whatever we do , they have to accept it by not opposing it, because we are the cowboys of those. These are the ordinary thoughts which happen to be in men’s hearts. But unfortunately, those people who think like the above, they have got a mask to outside world in order to shoe them as white hearted gentlemen. So we could find that who are black goats and who are white goats?

“ Stay............ Look...........Hear..........!” These are the three key words which fully involved in a men’s life cycle; this is how the man think. The example for this fact, they have is making laugh on my face. Usually a man is there in his way, by making his own things until he sees a girl in her life. So he happens to Stay there, and then is it enough by staying? He happens to Look her. What else after? The Marriage.......... Afterwards she becomes his wife; he happens to lose his life then. Finally in his life there is nothing other than the word Hear. Because of that the men have created a such saying. How good is no? They have to be kind enough to say something. Not only that in Tamil there are lots of proverbs , which were created especially for the women. Let’s look some of it in tamil.

¦Àñ Òò¾¢ À¢ý Òò¾¢

¬ÅÐõ ¦Àñ½¡§Ä, «Æ¢ÅÐõ ¦Àñ½¡§Ä.

§À¡Â¢Ä Å¢¡¢îº¡ §À¡îÍ, ¦À¡õÀÇ º¢¡¢îº¡ §À¡îÍ. Etc..

All these proverbs are trying to inform us about the attitudes and abilities of women.

All right those people who have said such lot things to the world, what have told about men? The answer is nothing. But unfortunately, in the world whatever hazards were done; they were done by the men. From our history early days Firown, Hitler in 19^th century and George. W .Bush in the 20^th ; all are men. Not only them for whatever dangerous activities men are the exemplars. But unfortunately they are not treated under generalization concept, because those problems are personals. In brief every single men are looking in a particular ways? And they are not treated by group or bulk. What is the normalization could be given to the fact? Whenever a women misses her right path, every single woman happens to have the bad name and they happen to be punished for that. The total women society is treated as victims those who have no good habits with them. These things are done by not only the men, but by some women also; that is the fact that is never acceptable. For these reasons women happen to face several problems in their working places, in the streets, in the society.

The notable fact is in the current world the population of women is above 50%. But still they are not able to stand here. They Deliver babies and care them by feeding and doing all the stuffs. But still the men couldn’t think of it and he fails to treat women well. Very unfortunate. Men cannot understand the women’s care. It’s not good to have them whenever we want romance and after that think of they are useless. Some people think women as “Cheep cases”. She melts only in front of who is deserved her To whom she gave her heart forever; apart from it in front of others she still being as a fire. We should note those facts. And we should obey their thoughts. So in the case of women we should re correct our guilty thoughts and we should have an oath to treat them as human beings like us. Whoever plays with girl’s life by irritating them and forging them, should reconsider their attitudes. Please...................